Some hobbies last into adulthood, while others won’t last long at all—even if your child enjoys them. Younger children often grow out of their interests and move on to something else.
Encourage your child to keep their commitment but allow them to move on when they’re ready. 例如, if they’re signed up for a team sport that they would like to stop, 讨论他们为什么要辞职. 偶尔, 这不是活动本身的问题,而是像过度安排这样的事情, 欺凌, or not feeling good enough that prevents them from wanting to continue. 看看有没有办法先结束这个赛季. 如果他们觉得自己不能撑过这个赛季, consider a compromise where they give the team an adequate heads up that they’ll be stopping.
While you shouldn’t force your child to continue an activity they no longer want to participate in, it’s important to demonstrate the importance of a commitment. When they’re ready to move on, work together to find a new extracurricular they can enjoy.